The Collegian

Lorpu Cooper

Q. My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for a while, but things are starting to fall off. In the beginning of the relationship we would regularly have sex, but now it seems like she does not want to have sex as oft en as before. I believe my sex drive is much higher than hers;what should I do?

A. Wow! I am sorry to have to say this but my fi rst thought is that maybe she is jaded. Another idea is that maybe she does not want you to become bored with her, therefore in an attempt to prevent this; she tries to hold back every now and then. One of the most important things to remember in a long term relationship is that it is essential to keep things fresh. Maybe she wants you to make an effort to do something new.

Often times as people enter a new relationship they want to be around their signifi cant other at all times,and may do just about anything to make their partner content; but aft er being together for a while, things begin to dwindle because the relationship is no longer innovative.

I hope that sex is not the only thing you all have in common; if this is so, this may be the end off your relationship. If you genuinely like this lady it is very important that you put in the effort. It is necessary that you talk to her about your feeling letting her know that your sex life is a concern of yours.

At the end of it all you should remember that it is her body therefore she is allowed to say no whenever she wants.

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